I’ve always believed, She was born on this lovely earth of mine(ya, it was mine once).. Just to destroy me.. just to defeat me, just to devastate me.
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There was one time when I believed, I’m invincible. I will not fall in love.. Yeah, I know its absolute stupidity.But I believed, until I met her. fell.
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There was a time when I believed, I can get up from any situation.. pat the dust and strive. Nay. Here, every time I tried hard, I sank deep into the marsh. I sank.
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There was a time when I believed, I could communicate.. Communicate wonderfully, make flowers out of words.. bla bla.. And when I talked to her, It was an occasional word somewhere in absolute silence. Couldn’t even open my mouth. stinks.
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There was a time when I believed, I could read one person. I could even understand a flicker of the eye, a change of tone, a change of note, or even.. interpret silence. Here, I felt like her face was blank. Failure.
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I’ve always believed, She was born to snatch this lovely earth of mine, from me for ever.
And last day, with a single look, She proved that I was correct.
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I’m not going to elaborate the entire thing here. That will be only to embarrass me further. For a person who always had to face “da, I love you“, The hard part was to accept the fact that today, I’ll have to say, “di, I love you more than anything that happen to be on earth!”.The hardest part, was to actually spit it out. though rohan did advice..
Rohan: man…let it be me,u or any guy,howevr brave he may, is supposed to be..wen u come to this part naa…u fucks it up…or u trembles so much that..u will nearly pee in ur pantsMe: ya bro.. I can expect that.. I’ll most definitely pee.
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Well, God’s grace, I didn’t. but came near, though.
As I said, the hardest part was to speak out. I’ve always carried the curse of all those whom I denied, all those whom I counselled, telling..
“molu, this love thing.. its not a good thing to do..”
It was as if i was here to experience how it felt when you are told no.
It was as if all the curses were on my head at that time. It was like all the spirits telling me, et tu, jeev?
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I conveyed it somehow. There was no response. 5 seconds.
I didn’t expect this from you. plus an indignant look.
A curt no, or even a slap would have been better. way too better. but the one look conveyed everything. It was like stabbing on your heart, it was..
Everything is back to point one, now. she wont talk to me, she wont smile at me.. what more!! she wont even look at me.
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This is bad. I’m loosing it now. i was soo sure she knew about me. I was so sure she knew i loved her. The moment she said she read my blog, my heart was pumping like hell.. Her friend’s mischievous smile when she saw me was too plane to be misunderstood.. the one smile of anticipation.. I thought the winds were in favour of me. I thought she was expecting. I knew, she was expecting.
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This is too bad. Its soo bloody hard to maintain control. I depend on to every principle I was taught, every straw I could hold on to, to remain sane.
I meditate, I work hard and run around till its all blood and sweat.. I forget myself in everything around me. still there is nothing but she.
reiki is of no bloody use!! and nothing helps. there is nothing but she..
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My dear, I did have and do have and will have this feeling for you. since months. years.
This is no stupid puppy love. No!! You know what?? I’ve been bloody researching on anything and everything about you, to find anything at all..
Not to love you!! but to hate you, to rescue my heart from ur clutches. And when i couldn’t, I knew for the first time in my life, that there is no way i can escape you, but to move away. to move far away. which i cannot! For the first time,
I knew the genuvinity, the depth and the magnitude of the feeling i have to you.
I knew I have failed to remain stable, unaffected by a woman.
I knew I was sinking and there is no way I could escape.
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So, I did the best and most appropriate thing to do. The most proper thing to do. Talked to my parents. talked real serious. And they complied. Hence came to the conclusion.
I’ll have you to the rest of my life. To the rest of eternity at my side. To protect you, To make you happy, and.. to make you smile.
Hell!! i don’t want to run over to you and hug you!! no!! what could I possibly do within this last 30 or 40 days? cannot even talk proper!! All I wanted, was to let you know, that I have this feeling.
and I will always have..
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Now, Listen. There is nothing but this. 4 years from now, I’ll get my folks, come to you home and bloody ask for your hand. Mark my words, If there is one bloody year of 2012, I’ll be there.
I donot know what was that you expected for me, and I don’t care, for now.
All I know is, I’ll wait. I’ll wait till bloody 2012. and Lets see what will happen then.
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PS: She will most definitely WILL NOT be reading this. And I do know, there is no purpose in using the you’s instead of she’s. But, i deliberately use them you’s.
Because, It is to you, I talk.
February 16, 2008 at 12:19 am
If this is what she wants to be, So be it.
But she can’t ask me to stop loving her. and i’ll most definitely will not.
But cant help pitying her.. che che.. she lost a golden chance..
February 16, 2008 at 1:54 am
frm this moment i’m also waitin for that bloody 2012…
N if i’m alive @ dat time,then i will b der with ur folks for asking her hand for u…
this is ma wrd jeevs….
February 16, 2008 at 7:02 am
@mridul..
U undertsood me, da.. u uderstood how it feels.
Thanks a lot.
February 16, 2008 at 5:47 pm
hmmm…
February 16, 2008 at 8:39 pm
jeevs..first thing….wen we.me n u are fucked to the core our words flow,i make decent posts then and u create awsome posts…this one is so…
i felt it too good to see my name there in the post…and as said u “the mighty’ also trembled wen u came close to the gig…
last day wen we chatted i said one more thing “nasar hatti tho samjho phatti”…and u said u will be the epitome of ______.so be it,pursue and come out success..
p.s:did she really say that she didnt expect it,i cant beleive that.2012 am in ur folks list…
February 17, 2008 at 9:29 am
ya, she didnt.
no probs da, I’m very much the same.. not beard, no long hair, and nothing is going to hamper my attittude, and i’ll ever be the same..
seems like 2012, i’ll have to get an airbus[:P]
February 17, 2008 at 1:21 pm
Jeev,
Dnt cal me a liar ,when i say i hve read my biography til date. Bt man , its soo similar expt tat ur love was replaced by friendship to the core.
I felt the pain again,whle reading tis mate. And it felt like a dagger toring ma heart when i read ‘i didnt expect ths from you plus an indignant look’. I undrstnd ur pulses mate.
Stil i dnt know the lead gal in the stry, hpe u share wid me one day.
One wrd mate
” Face it with an open heart . Be a valiant nd I bet she wil undrstand ur love, its nt because you are my sweet pal, but just because Your LOVE is DIVINE”
Count me in for that glorious day at 2012, its ma word.
I think u wil hve to hire a train mate not an airbus, because evry person who is human and undrstnd the essence of Love wil be there beside you…
NB: If you r the lead gal , then mate one wrd.
“Anyone can catch your eyes, but it takes someone so special to catch your HEART. And i bet ma Jeev is sme one so special, u wont ever find a love as DIVINE as u was offered… “
February 17, 2008 at 8:53 pm
Hmm… Talk! Thats Good!
A big hug!
February 17, 2008 at 9:09 pm
@ manu..
mate, i bow to thee..
“a dagger tore my heart” will be a usage which will explain not even half of what we felt. ryt??
and bro, I’m most obliged, for your note to the queen of my heart. I do believe she will come to know what is that we feel… one day, at least.
February 17, 2008 at 9:12 pm
@ narain
huh.. have thought of what would have been happened, if i didnt tel her…
That would be nothing but betreyal.
I felt, and i told what i felt.
Could have muted, but, i never wanted to mute myeslf.
I do believe, I did it right when i conveyed the entire feeling.
and, thnx for the hug.:)
February 17, 2008 at 10:19 pm
I dn’y have to comment, I guess… its a ditto of my story!!!….
gals suxx big time (except my current girl friend)
February 17, 2008 at 11:37 pm
manu sounds g**…kidding…
February 18, 2008 at 1:01 am
oy roh!!
ye meine bhi socha nahi tha ki is ladka itna acha likh sakte ho..
bey!! usko sambaal ley!!
varna vo ek blog shuru kar denge or hum logom ki khanti baja dengi!!
@pratheesh bhai
well, we did ha a comprehensive chat. ryt?
I do admit all gals suxx.
except ur present girl friend and my own Ms. X
February 18, 2008 at 8:43 pm
i was waiting to write this comment just to see
EE BHRANTHU EVIDAM VARE POKUM …
jeevan kuttan …dont be so crazy..after all its just a gal… she s not the only one in this world.. anyway u dont ve anything to lose… poor her
February 18, 2008 at 10:13 pm
she may not be the only one in the world…but without her everyone one else in the world seem worthless…ain’t it jeevs…it is so anu chechy
February 18, 2008 at 11:25 pm
this is what is called ( as i mentioned earlier ) BHRANTHU … not simply BHRANTHU.. i should call MUZHU VATTU.. HA HA HA
February 18, 2008 at 11:33 pm
@ all,
allow me to introduce to you my dearest sister and cousin.. anu. She’s such a talented person in inspiring people “outta” love
@anu.. my dear.. once you enter this trance, there is nothing but dance all the way.. I chose to enter. so be it
She may not be the only one.. but she is the one I chose. We.. me, roh, manu, pratheesh bhai.. all of us have known the kick of it sometime or other..
You wanna call it lunaticity? so be it..
I’ll say, we’re proud to be lunatic.
I’ll be proud to be lunatic, if its on her sake.
because, the cause itself is worth the pain.
The cause IS worth the pain.
February 19, 2008 at 12:35 pm
@everyone..
see guys when u say u’d be on the 2012train.. u r not totally appreciating the possible ramifications it can’ve 2 our very good friend jeevs..
i’ve been through a like situation.. and i know what difficulty it can cause in ones future life..
it creates an invisible barrier around jeevs from fallin in love again.. it makes an obligation on part of jeevs 2 wait till 2012 for this chick.. it’d restrain him from expressin love for another girl in future even if she touches his heart..
as far as i see his adventure.. his was a still born love.. he has not lived or spent a single moment with this chick.. he doesnt know her likes or dislikes.. not even made proper conversation let alone he goin 2 spend 4years in waitin for her..
he may wait.. but his love’d be woven of commitment he made to u guys, his friends, rather than from passion 4 that chick..
whatever.. so my idea is 2 cheer up our good friend jeevs n channel his emotions 2 somethin creative.. the guy writes like shakespher.. let us inspire him 2 write more (even if its bout the girl.. no prob)..
February 19, 2008 at 7:39 pm
Now, as everyone says, she’s not the only girl on earth. If she doesnt accept you, all I can that it is her bad luck!
February 19, 2008 at 8:03 pm
@thomas..
Oh! thanx bro, I do appreciate your concern.. well, regarding the invisible barriers, leave it bro.. If such a case happen, its for good, na??
mean, whn i go over to job, i may meet this “could be better than her” girl.. in mumbai or banglore..
if this inv. barrier is there, that much good!! mean, my folks here at home can be soo orthodox at times.. they’ll definitely be stubborn about christian girl.. and so am i, as a matter of fact.
so, as far as i’m concerned, she’ll serve as a protection..
Guardian Angel, u can say!!
and, the commitment will bemost definitely based on passion. and nothing else. I donot believe in proving my actions to others. Nor do I believe in acting to convince others about what I am not.
aaaandd!!! should tell ya, shakespear will suicide is he eva read your comment!! nope, he’ll resurrect first and then suicide.
frankly, I’m flattered.
I’ll be putting more effort on the blog, now.
Thnx a bunch!!
February 19, 2008 at 8:10 pm
@narain!
flattered again!!
why is that everybody is soo goddamn interested in flattering me??
aah!! my 5″6′ just got to 7″6′
she’s not that unlucky, u know.. there is still chance. and I do hope she understand that!
the sooner, the better
February 20, 2008 at 6:49 pm
i can be wrong bout Shakespeare (never read any of his plays).. but there is a wisdom of the head and a wisdom of the heart..n presently u are usin only one..