Random Thoughts

Wherever we stand, we always have a choice

True, But the implications is what I would like to think of!

True, when ever I was stuck, I had a choice. I could choose from a list of possible outcomes. When we say we can always choose, it doesn’t mean that its going to be easy, or even human.

When I say I started loving a girl, I had a choice. I could choose whether to love her, or to control my “uncontrollable ” feeling I had for her. I could be ideal, I could be robotic, and I could, really, perhaps, try to control it. But to control it, would be nothing less than inhuman, nothing less than robotic, where one would retain allegiance to his protocols without remorse or even any feelings! To control it would render me to something I am not!

I could think, I was thinking, and that is what I was made of!

Cogito ergo sum: I think therefore I am.

I could think, and I had feelings and that made me decide, Yes.. I do love her. Now, once, a choice is made, I donot think that once can back off from it. Whether it be a public proclamation or be it a self-instruction. A person of conscience can never go back.

The point I want to make is, the choices of your’s are like mountains on your shoulder. We can never put it of.

There is one thing I discovered these days. A theory, kindof.. The best thing in life is to be dynamic. like dynamic allocation of memory..

There is no purpose in speculating and calculating. the probability that any speculation will work the way you want is i/x, where x in the number of people involved in speculation. and i, is the no of people (in x), who speculates exactly the way you are speculating.

For example,
If I tell 22 people about my new dream/speculation, you all start speculating in your own way. so, the probability of getting it done in my way is, 1/22. Well, there is a meager probability that one or 2 people will think in my own way. Even then,the max probability that I can obtain will be 1/11.

got it??

It doesn’t mean that I should not reveal my plans. The point is, that there is not much point in planning. The better way is, defend it the way it comes. )

When we are alert, and dynamic one can respond in a much better way. Seriously, I’ve responded the best in these situations.

1. Accidents.. all 11 of them were reacted with an efficiency which reminded me of the final hr before university exams.

2. Lay-offs. Well, Not in my wildest dream I planned to face it. But trust me, I could handle it pretty well.

Well!! This is not a th. for a completely broken hearted or hopeless people!!

I just wanted to convey that our responses are much sharper when the situation is unpredicted. When we have a situation which is coming forth, lets take, an interview.. we’re tensed of what the outcome will be! Or, in scientific terms, we’re getting tensed over the predicted risk..
Now, as we all know, getting tensed reduces one’s efficiency by 40-60% depending upon gender.( guys are less suseptable to tension break-downs..yeaaey!!) So,  when there is a calculated or predicted risk, our efficiency definitely reduces.

Now, when the situation spontaneous, we don’t have time, actually to brood over it. we need to act immediately! so, our efficiency will be much much better!

You can definitely note this, by the fact that unpredicted risks are “usually” better managed by female than male community..

So, what say you??